This is a question that came to me via email, therefore I will answer it here.
Q: How can I tell my husband that I am not enjoying sex with him? I have tried to share with him some of the things I light, but he only does what makes him feel good. signed Dissatisfied
Ans: Dissatisfied, this is a very touchy subject. However, it you want to maintain your marriage and restore it to a happy state, then we Must go to work.
- Don't tell him "I'm not enjoying sex with you", instead, tell him what you do like, and see if you can find a book that may say what you like and you may be able to share it via the book.
- No man wants to be compared to a past lover, husband, etc. therefore, be careful in your approach.
- Ask him if he enjoys himself, and would he like for you to do something different.
- Make noticeable sounds or gestures during sex when he does something you like, and not so much when you don't. (Remember he may not do each and everything you like all at one time, but this is a 'Work in Progress'.
Keep me posted on how this go and we will make sure get you and your husband on the track of hot, beautiful, blissful, sexual pleasure in no time.
I believe and will try
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